Prioritizing what’s most important
A group of high-powered executives, representing some of the most successful companies in America, sat in a lecture hall, eager to absorb every word from the renowned professor standing before them. The session was part of a leadership seminar on Efficient Time Management, and the professor, a man of wisdom and experience, was given just one hour to share his insights.
As the managers readied their pens, expecting theories, strategies, and productivity hacks, the professor instead placed a large empty glass jar on the table. He let the silence settle before speaking.
“We are going to conduct an experiment,” he said.
From beneath the table, he pulled out a bag of large stones, each the size of a tennis ball. One by one, he carefully placed them into the jar until no more could fit. Then, he looked up.
“Is the jar full?”
“Yes,” the managers responded.
The professor smiled and reached under the table again, this time revealing a bag of pebbles. Slowly, he poured them into the jar, shaking it gently as the smaller stones found their way into the spaces between the large ones.
“Now, is the jar full?” he asked.
The executives hesitated. “Probably not,” one of them answered.
The professor nodded and pulled out a bag of sand. He poured it into the jar, watching as the grains trickled into the tiny gaps.
“Now?” he asked again.
The group chuckled. “No!” they said in unison.
“Correct,” the professor said, lifting a pitcher of water and pouring it into the jar. The liquid seeped in, filling every remaining space until the jar could hold no more.
He paused, allowing the visual lesson to sink in, then asked, “What great truth can we learn from this experiment?”
One manager, thinking about the lecture’s theme, quickly replied, “That no matter how busy we are, we can always fit in more tasks and responsibilities.”
The professor shook his head. “No. The truth is this: If you don’t put the large stones in first, you will never fit them in later.”
The room fell silent. The weight of his words settled over the audience.
“What are the large stones in your life?” the professor continued. “Your health? Your family? Your dreams? Doing what you love? Fighting for a cause? If you don’t put these first, your life will be filled with insignificant things, leaving no room for what truly matters.”
He looked around the room, locking eyes with each manager before offering his final piece of advice.
“Prioritize your big stones. Because if you spend all your time on the small things—on the pebbles and the sand—you will wake up one day and realize you never made space for the things that make life meaningful.”
With that, he gave a warm wave, picked up his notes, and walked out of the room, leaving the executives in deep thought about the true measure of success.
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