Fli is a dish that imediately makes you smile because it reminds you of home, family and friends gathered together sharing a meze, drinking tea or raki, chatting, singing and sometimes even dancing. This is a food that makes you take a break, retreat and get lost in whatever your surroundings are. That’s because li takes around 3 - 5 hours to cook and is like a meditation for me or a joyful time to share with family and friends gathered by the fire creating a dish, layer after layer, just like building a castle one stone at a time. I guess that’s how friendships are strengthened also, one conversation and one sharing at a time. It takes a lot of patience, care and understanding full of love and disposition to get and keep a friend, just like making a fli. You can’t risk on leaving it, because it will burn. You have to be there fully immerced in it knowing that it will be worth it in the end. When you start a fli get ready to spend a lot of time by the fire, removing the cover, pouring the batter and creating with fli batter a sun looking figure surrounded by sunrays in the pan. And then fill the spaces between the “sunrays” up with batter in the next step, and only to continue with another “ sun” on top of it and so on.